Besides visiting here and also a member on several Facebook groups.
FB is a plague. They attack the openness of the internet - all things only for members - analyzes all inidividual and make money from it. With companies like this we would not have the internet as we have it today. And no, a single company should never allowed to set a standard. Monocultures are not good in nature, in business and for humans and culture.
No, I will never join such "communities" and much more people should realize the background and do the same.
May be that is the reason that so many more or less active people are lost here?
If I miss then those models and speed builds on FB I don't care.
but what the rush? Is their a modelling race that I somehow missed?
May be the models are the new "Ferrari" and "Porsche"? I noticed also a lot of new companies with a trend to high price models?
One example: there is a new company Minibase and their first model is a Suchoi Su-33 Flanker-D in 1/48 for around 100€.
A huge amount of companies doing accessories, paints, tools ... So every week is a new hottest shit you need to get ...
Seems to be the same "rat race" as everywhere. Wherever mankind starts a competition, it ends up like this.
With a a high priced sports car you can try to impress (at least some) woman, but with a nicely build model?

I'd like to hear what started you modeling and more so, what keeps you going beck to the bench?
I like those colorful biplanes of the early aviation period! The build process is fun, I can always try to be better with the next model by a (very important aspect) learning process. I can try to understand the technical history, the development of solutions (as an engineer). For example the changes between the aircrafts within the Sopwith family. Also the research for the projects and the community and discussions are an important part of it.
So that results in a rate of around six models a year, depending on needed effort. But if a model needs longer or end as shelf queen for a while that is ok too.
Cheers,
Frank