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Offline pepperman42

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4 years later she comes back for more
« on: December 20, 2013, 07:39:34 AM »
So you get left in the lurch, put things back together for yourself, pay for everything your son could want or need and 4 years later she wants even MORE. Aaaalll the agreements set up legally in the past can be challenged and the process starts over. Merry f-ing etc etc....I can do this though....rrrrrr

Steve
I was clean,shaved and sober and I didnt care who knew it.

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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #1 on: December 20, 2013, 08:47:56 AM »
Sorry to read about your problems Steve - these can be as trying (even more trying?) than illness. Both are entirely unpredictable and therefore stressful. I wish you all the very best in sorting this problem out once and for all. Modelling is a good therapy as it helps to distract the mind - I know because it was one of the reasons why I took it up again as I have a close family member with psychiatric problems which can be very difficult too. There will be many people thinking of you - including me.

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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #2 on: December 20, 2013, 02:07:04 PM »
I feel for you...if it's any help, my brother's ex did the same thing and when the judge saw how much she was already getting HE REDUCED IT! There IS hope!

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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #3 on: December 20, 2013, 06:10:54 PM »
Hi Steve,

I know how you must feel now. Many years ago I was in the same situation. I wish you a lot of courage and you should know that a lot of guys here on the forum support you with all their hart. Courage my friend!

Patrick

Offline Cimmerian

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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #4 on: December 20, 2013, 06:32:06 PM »
All the best, Steve. I hope you get everything sorted.
Regards, Ken

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Offline Chris Johnson

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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #5 on: December 21, 2013, 03:20:00 AM »
That sucks Steve. When I hear stuff like this, I'm glad my wife of 33 years still sees potential in me.

Cheers,

Chris
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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #6 on: December 21, 2013, 11:18:58 AM »
Sorry to hear that Steve. You always have us, and we won't try to take your stuff!
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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #7 on: December 22, 2013, 12:13:28 PM »
Thanks gents for your support. Chris I can say my new wife is the good for 33+ years type and RB - possibly the best advice I could get!! ;D

Steve
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Offline Tony Haycock

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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #8 on: December 24, 2013, 03:01:53 PM »
Great advice from my first boss. He told me that instead of getting married I should just go out, get drunk, find a woman I hate and buy her a house. It saves years of grief!

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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #9 on: December 29, 2013, 12:44:07 AM »
Hmm its the express lane in the same boat if I do that..and a hang over. Im rolling the dice on #3 - at this point theres little to lose!!!!!

Steve
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Offline Ernie

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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #10 on: December 29, 2013, 01:55:40 PM »
Steve, they say third time the charm...you could use some of that, my friend.
Hope all turns out for you.

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Re: 4 years later she comes back for more
« Reply #11 on: January 04, 2014, 03:08:18 AM »
The third is truley a charm for sure!!!!

Steve
I was clean,shaved and sober and I didnt care who knew it.