Hang tough Pete, as others have said: family comes first AND please take care of yourself. I recently lost a friend because he could not understand my "lack of dedication" and that "I was a quitter" because I put the welfare of my family ahead of attending a hobby event with him. That's one reason I've come back to the fold of scale models, everyone here understands about reality rearing its ugly head. I'll keep you and yours in my prayers.
Warren