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Offline Pete Nottingham

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Total Lack of Will Power
« on: December 14, 2012, 02:42:39 AM »
Hi guys;

Thought I would give you all a quick explanation as to why I've been so absent of late, I have lost the modelling will at the moment due to serious personal problems, my stepdaughter (39 years of age) living at home, is an alcoholic, she has no one, no friends, now no job, she had 2 drink driving charges against her in one week, just missed going to prison but is on a 14 week suspended sentence for 18 months, driving ban and 150 hours of community service, we have had numerous phone calls from hospitals saying she has been taken in and can we go and pick her up, hence the total lack of modelling will power.

Sorry to burden you with my problems.

Cheers

Pete.
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Offline rhallinger

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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #1 on: December 14, 2012, 03:00:04 AM »
Hang in there Pete.  You are doing the right thing---taking care of our (extended) families is what it's all about.  I hope you can soon find a little personal time for relaxation with this hobby we all love so much.  The models will still be there for you after you've taken care of your family.  In the meantime, I hope all of the great models and conversation on this forum will give you some comfort and inspiration.  Take care, may God bless, and best wishes.

Regards,

Bob
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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #2 on: December 14, 2012, 03:05:59 AM »
Many thanks for your kind wishes Bob.

Cheers

Pete.
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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #3 on: December 14, 2012, 04:05:02 AM »
  Pete,
Hold fast my old friend you're doing the right thing in taking care of your family. People sometimes forgot we have only two things in life of real meaning faith and our families. You're a good man and I'm proud to call you my friend.
Highest Regards,
Gregory Jouette

Merry Christmas to You and Yours
Our prayers are with you
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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #4 on: December 14, 2012, 04:21:18 AM »
Many thanks for your thoughts Gregory.

Cheers

Pete.
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Offline Ian from Doncaster

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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #5 on: December 14, 2012, 05:00:32 AM »
Pete, you are totally correct to put family ahead of hobbies, but make sure whilst looking after others you keep an eye on yourself too, and get whatever help you need, if needed.  WWI was almost 100 years ago, it won't harm to put off modelling for a while.

Best wishes, Ian.
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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #6 on: December 14, 2012, 05:27:15 AM »
Sorry to hear of your family issues Pete, but as others have said, family comes first and fore most, they are the most important people in our life and to take care of a family member is very admirable. Please take care of yourself while you are going through these tough times and remember, you are not alone, talking about these issues can be a big help.

I'm thinking of you Pete.

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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #7 on: December 14, 2012, 07:10:57 AM »
Its never a burden on others if it provides you some relief.  Please make sure you take care of yourself as only with a clear mind can you deal with the trials that have been set forth for you. You have my empathy and my hopes for the best conclusion to this sad matter.

Steve
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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #8 on: December 14, 2012, 07:13:46 AM »
Quote from: pepperman42 on December 14, 2012, 07:10:57 AM
Its never a burden on others if it provides you some relief.  Please make sure you take care of yourself as only with a clear mind can you deal with the trials that have been set forth for you. You have my empathy and my hopes for the best conclusion to this sad matter.

Steve

I couldn't put it any better.
Hang in there, Pete.

Take care mate.
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Offline Dal Gavan

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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #9 on: December 14, 2012, 08:43:49 AM »
G'day, Pete.  As the others say, please take care of yourself, mate.  Once things settle a bit, you'll f9ind us still here, gibbering about the latest WNW/Roden/AllleyCat release.

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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #10 on: December 14, 2012, 09:27:27 AM »
Pete,
  Never second guess your decision to try to help; addiction is a tough one for sure but not much different then any serious health problem. I have several Family Members who are addicts; the best advice I can offer is seek help from the various groups available and read Steve's message again, I couldn't say it better. You must look after yourself to provide quality help to your Step Daughter.
   I have dealt with similar situations more often (and still) then I care to think about. Please, if I can offer any perspective or advice, PM me.
   In the interim your chair will be reserved for as long as needed; we'll be here to welcome you back on your return. Don't dally though, the WNW release rate may become insurmountable!
My thoughts will be with you.
Lance
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Offline Chris Johnson

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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #11 on: December 14, 2012, 10:00:07 AM »
Problems like this are never a bother Pete. I wish you all the best as I know from experience growing up with an alcoholic family member that you have a tough row to hoe. I hope that she finds the resolve to gain control of her life again. Be supportive, but never a doormat. First and foremost, take care of yourself and your spouse's well being as these issues can sap your health and spirits quicker than you think. Hang tough my friend!

Cheers,

Chris
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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #12 on: December 14, 2012, 10:14:44 AM »
I admire you for sharing, Pete. It's a difficult situation and I'm glad that the fellowship found here is able to provide some measure of solace and catharsis. Take care of yourself, and your family.

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Offline Pete Nottingham

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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #13 on: December 15, 2012, 12:53:21 AM »
Many thanks for all of your replies, I'm deeply moved and It's great to know that I can call you my International Friends.

Fondest regards

Pete.
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Offline Whiteknuckles

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Re: Total Lack of Will Power
« Reply #14 on: December 15, 2012, 04:40:58 PM »
Hang in there Pete and take care of yourself.

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