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Title: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Old Man on August 18, 2015, 08:20:44 AM
Real life has interfered with modelling a great deal this year. Early in the year both wife and I were sporadically ill, and in her case what we thought in April was a bad flu turned into viral pneumonia. When we got her to the hospital she was unresponsive, and they put her into a medically-induced coma, which lasted eight days before they could bring her back to consciousness. She was in hospital till the end of June, and since then I have been pretty much a combination of orderly, nurse's aide, and maid of all work. In the last couple of weeks things have gotten back to near normal; she is up and about, and able to do most everything for herself. April was damned scary, though.

I am easing back into modeling, and intend to be starting soon on another scratch-build.
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: RAGIII on August 18, 2015, 08:35:42 AM
Welcome back old Man! It sounds as though you are past the really scary part and I  am pleased to hear that your Wife is doing well! Great to have you back!
RAGIII
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Pgtaylorart on August 18, 2015, 08:51:35 AM
Glad to see you back, Old Man. So sorry you've had such a hard year. :-\

Sometimes model building can be the best medicine, I look forward to seeing some of your new builds! :)

George
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: coyotemagic on August 18, 2015, 08:53:13 AM
So good to see you back, Old Man, and I'm so happy that your wife is on the mend!  Looking forward to seeing more of your modeling brilliance.
Cheers,
Bud
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: IanB on August 18, 2015, 10:00:28 AM
Sorry to hear of your wife's illness, good to hear she's well on the mend. Great to see you back!

Ian
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Des on August 18, 2015, 11:31:51 AM
It's great to see you back on the forum again Old Man but it was disturbing to hear of your wife's illness. It was good that the medical people got onto it and responded quickly to her ailment, so nice to hear that she is nearly back to normal. Looking forward to seeing your next scratch but but your wife is top priority, take good care of her, models can wait.

Des.
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: lcarroll on August 18, 2015, 12:12:00 PM
   That's a frightening experience, Old Man, glad to hear that you are both over the worst, especially your Wife who was very ill. As Des says, priorities! Do take time for yourself though, and welcome back to the fold!
Cheers,
Lance
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: uncletony on August 18, 2015, 12:12:53 PM
Best wishes OM. I hope your wife's recovery is speedy and complete.
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Nigel Jackson on August 18, 2015, 04:05:48 PM
Welcome back OM and I'm so relieved to hear about your wife's progress following such a worrying period. It all puts things into their true perspective.

Best wishes
Nigel
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: stefanbuss on August 18, 2015, 04:32:02 PM
I am very sorry to hear of your wife's illness, and I wish her a speedy recovery.

Good to see you easing back into the hobby - I learned the hard way that this is something helpful if you are tasked with taking care of relatives as a fulltime "job", from a "personal therapy" oint of view.

Take care!

Stefan
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: pietro on August 18, 2015, 05:12:21 PM
Old Man, I cannot emphasize enough what Des has said. Your wife's health takes precedent over these models. This is only a hobby, she is your life. By the way, I thought I was the "Old Man". Good health to both of you...
Pietro & Barbara
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Ernie on August 18, 2015, 08:42:18 PM
Nice to have you back, OM.  Very good news about your wife's
return to health...a very scary time indeed.  Thankful for a
positive update, my friend.

Cheers,
Ernie :)
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: lcarroll on August 18, 2015, 11:12:13 PM
 QUOTE:  "By the way, I thought I was the Old Man".

    What about me, that's what I thought too! :-\ OK, who is our most Senior member? (or as some Asian Cultures believe, WISEST!) ;)
Cheers,
Lance
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Ssasho0 on August 18, 2015, 11:49:23 PM
Welcome back, I am glad to hear that those troubles of yours are already behind your back!
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Thumbs up on August 19, 2015, 01:32:04 AM
Great to see you back OM. I'm sure you will find a bit of peaceful modelling quite restorative.Looking forward to your next build.
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: lone modeller on August 19, 2015, 01:51:58 AM
Welcome back OM, you have been missed. I too had wondered where you had been. Priority number one is to help your wife - she after all is irreplaceable whereas models can be built again or rebuilt. I caught pneumonia in SE Asia many years ago and found myself in hospital and would not wish the experience on anyone. I was relieved and pleased to read that she is almost well again. I do hope that she makes a complete recovery soon.

I am looking forward very much to your next scratch build - then I can learn some more tricks in this hobby.
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Pgtaylorart on August 19, 2015, 01:55:28 AM
QUOTE:  "By the way, I thought I was the Old Man".

    What about me, that's what I thought too! :-\ OK, who is our most Senior member? (or as some Asian Cultures believe, WISEST!) ;)
Cheers,
Lance

Interesting question, Lance. Maybe you should start a poll? Or is that too personal to ask our ages?

George
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: lcarroll on August 19, 2015, 05:38:47 AM
George,
    Age can be entered on our Profiles, but I've noticed not many do enter it. More then age I often wonder where Members reside and that info too is usually omitted. My comment on "wisdom" as related to age came from a medical appointment a while back, I complained about getting too damned old to which my Doc replied, "in my culture we wouldn't refer to you as being older, rather you are wiser"! I told her to keep up the good work!!
   I just wondered if I was the smartest old wise one here!! :D
Cheers,
Lance
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: ALBATROS1234 on August 19, 2015, 02:34:03 PM
i had wondered why i have not seen you around for a bit. but you have often come and gone for periods of time. good luck and i hope your situation improves. i look forward to seeing your next scratch built project.
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: GAJouette on August 23, 2015, 12:21:07 PM
  Old Man,
Welcome back my old friend. I'm more than glad to hear your Misses is doing much better.I'll say pray for her and you as well as I know all this wasn't a piece of cake for you either. I know my wife felt much as you did when taking care of me. Best Wishes and Excellent Health to you both my old friend.
Highest Regards,
Gregory Jouette
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Old Man on August 24, 2015, 08:02:52 AM
Thank you all for your kind words and concern. I should probably stop being surprised by what a friendly place this is.

I am getting in more and more bench time, as improvement continues. What put her in has been remedied for a while, most of the convalescence has owed to a sizeable pressure ulcer she picked up while in the ICU. That has dwindled considerably, down to perhaps a tenth or less its original size after the debridement. It does not hurt and does not interfere with her movement, or even with sitting. Even changing the dressings has become not much of a chore.

I picked up a few kits while she was away, simple items, but could not really concentrate: more of an alternative to staring at walls while home than anything. I have been finishing them up, though, and had projects on the hob abandoned when things got wonky, which I would also like to get back to.

But I am looking forward to doing one from scratch --- that would mean normalcy returned.....
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Trackpad on September 21, 2015, 01:17:34 PM
Glad that you're back, Old Man! I'm on a bit of a return flight, too!
Title: Re: A Bit of a Hello, After Long Abscence
Post by: Epeeman on September 22, 2015, 01:30:01 AM
OM,

Good to see you back!

Regards

Dave