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Modelers Lounge => How's it going? => Topic started by: RAGIII on September 28, 2023, 07:31:07 AM
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I have been trying to keep this information more or less under the radar. I think it's time to get this in the open. I have already shared this with the Admin and some other close Friends.
Last year My wife was diagnosed with Small Cell Carcinoma in her Lungs. It was caught Very early and all were hopeful. As an aside, she had one bad habit which was smoking. Otherwise she always had a great diet.and really practiced healthy habits.
Last year when I was somewhat absent from the forum, she was undergoing her first series of chemo and radiation.
After that she was cancer free for only four months before she showed more tumors growing in her Lungs.
In the last few months she has been going through further chemo treatments.
The impact on me has been devastating to say the least. I have found that the worst thing is my Anger is Skin deep and can explode without much provocation
A small setback in a model build suddenly becomes a fit of anger. Last week I was attempting to attach the upper wing on the Roden Sopwith Strutter. I had difficulty and smashed it on the floor.
I have therefore gone back to WW2 1/72 nd models that are a bit less stressful.
This is also why I have been remiss in comments on the terrific builds going on now.
RAGIII
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Life can throw some bastard cruelties at you, Rick.
As you get older unfortunately they come thick and fast.
All the very best hopes and wishes for your wife and you.
Hang in there buddy.
Sandy
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That's tough, RAG. Sorry to hear it.
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Rick,
You and your wife have all of our best wishes.
Rick in Seattle
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Rick, and Linda have nothing but my best wishes and warm thoughts. I cannot imagine how hard this last year has been on you both. Thank you for sharing and know that all of us have your backs and are thinking of you :)
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That's tough to hear, Rick—and tougher still to have to deal with, I know. Best wishes and prayers for the both of you.
Yours,
Dutch
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Thinking of you both Rick. Your anger and frustration with life in general is totally understandable.
Don't worry about commenting and posting, just pop in if and when you have time.
Best wishes to you both.
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Your comments have always been generous, supportive and helpful Rick, always appreciated.
Lots of love and sympathy to you and your wife.
Mark
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Hi Rick, sorry to hear about your wife and how it is affecting you. Prayers and well wishes being sent to you and your family. Stay strong, Juan
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I find it impossible to understand your situation, but quite able to imagine the stress and anxiety caused by it. I really hope for some good news in your future!
/Fredrik
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Rick, I am very sorry to hear about your wife. I can only imagine how hard this must be for her and you.
My thoughts are with you and I wish the both of you strenght in these difficult times.
Willem
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I too would like you and your wife to know that you are both in my thoughts. Your reaction and thin skin is wholly understandable and not to be apologetic about.
When you feel ready to comment do so, but do not be in a hurry as we are all here for you and your wife.
Stephen.
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Keep fighting the good fight Rick. To have emotions is to be human, you're both going through one of the toughest things we have to face. Thoughts and prayers with you, my friend.
Brad
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So sorry to hear that Rick.
Do what you need to do.
We, and the models, can wait.
My best wishes to you both.
Ian
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Sorry to hear that Richard
I'm following you while you are making WWII aircraft and they are great, inspiring builds anyway.
I really hope for some good news!
er me
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Rick,
My thoughts and hopes are with you both, take courage and continue the good fight. You have a wealth of support and sincere concern here and reach out if you need to. Life can be a real challenge at times but I know you and Linda will give this the best you have, and from what I've seen over the years that's a lot!
Take care and stay in touch when you feel the need.
Lance
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Horrible news. I wish you and your wife all the best!
Andreas
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I know there are no right words, but I wish you and your family all the best.
Giuseppe
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My prayers for the both of you Amigo.
Ed
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I'm so sorry to hear about the situation. I hope further treatment, as rough as they are, brings good results. You are allowed to escape every now and then but enjoy your hobby the way you, and only you, need to. Subject matter doesn't matter. Love your BoB builds and Wildcat so keep posting when you feel like it.
Steve
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Rick,
You and I are old friends, and we go back years with quite a few miles on the frame. We've discussed some of this before, and I am so sorry that both of you are having to go through this. Please know that I keep you both in my prayers, and if there's anything I can do to help, whether it's sending you more styrene, or you just want to talk, please don't hesitate to let me know.
Warren
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I have just read this... I am sorry to hear of your problems, Rick. I wish your wife and you all the best and all the peace necessary. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
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Hello, Rick -
I nearly missed this mate - apologies.
Life can be a real sod sometimes and I am truly sorry to read this about your wife.
I'll simply say best wishes for a speedy recovery for your wife and look forward to seeing you back here in due course.
Best regards
Dave
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I am hoping the best for you and your wife. I can only imagine how hard a time this must be for you.
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I am very late in thanking you all for the well wishes and Prayers. I know some of you have followed my ww2 builds and I do appreciate that. We will find out on the 21st of December if Lynda needs another,3rd round , of chemo. I actually made a bit of progress on the CSM Bristol Scout. I dared to put about 4 lines though pre drilled holes. I haven't gone any further but it is a start!
RAGIII
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Good to see you back in the saddle and sending you further best wishes against whatever life throws at you.
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Those of you who are on Facebook and are Friends with Me know that My wife of 43 years Passed away on July 28th, 2025. Her 3 year battle has ended. In the end it was a Side effect of the Small Cell Lung cancer that took her. Her Lower Lobe collapsed and she developed Infectious Pneumonia. It was just too much for her to handle. Thanks to All for the support given in the past. I have been watching your builds even if I am Not Contributing.
RAGIII/AKA Rick Geisler
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Rick, I don't know what to say.
I am so sorry for your loss. You had a hard time fighting this terrible disease.
I wish you and your loved ones lots of strength during this difficult time.
My thoughts are with you.
Willem
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By pure coincidence I came across this forum today where I was absent for a very long time and read these horrible news. I hope you can accept my condolences and my very best wishes for you.
Andreas
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Rick I am so, so very sorry. Words don't seem enough.
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Rick,
Again, you know you and your extended family are in my prayers. Please know I'm here if you ever want to talk, etc.
Warren D.
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Dreadful news, my friend, the very worst.
No words.
My sincere condolences.
Sandy
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Rick - I?m so sorry to hear this news. It must be a very difficult time but all our thoughts are with you.
Matt
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Rick, thanks for letting us know and my sincere condolences to you and your family. I am sure you have built many happy memories with your wife over the years but a loss like this is difficult to deal with. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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So sorry to hear that. Best wishes, Rick.
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Heartfelt sympathy Rick.
Best wishes and strength to you in this dark time.
Mark
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Hi Rick, my prayers and sincere condolences to you and your family. Rest assured she is in a better place now and not having to deal with her condition.
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Rick,
Such sad news, and I am so saddened to hear of your loss. Dwell on the good times and memories, old friend, it's the best way and I can say from experience it helps deal with the realities immensely. You have a great deal of respect and caring here in this group, reach out for what you may need and God Bless.
Lance
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So sorry to hear that Rick , I send my prayers
Alexis
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Sincere condolences Rick - very sad news indeed.
Gary
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I can hardly add anything to what others have said, but you are in my thoughts.
/Fredrik
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Dear Rick,
I feel so sorry for you. I have no words. What to say when the main reason for life disappears...?
All the best for you.
Rafael
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Thanks To All for the condolences and Kind Comments. They do Help!
RAGIII/AKA Rick Geisler
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I too am very saddened to read your news Rick. Please accept my condolences to you and your family - you are all in my thoughts at this very sad time.
Apologies for the slow reply - I am having problems accessing the site because of snags with the security system.
Stephen.
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So sorry to hear that. Please accept my sincere condolences.